Letting your emotions out in a game

I'm going to have to vent for a minute. People get ripped on for being too competitive and wearing their emotions on their sleeve. As a goalie, I naturally hate to give up goals, but when I get frustrated for giving up a goal, suddenly, I'm the bad guy. Personally, that is not fair. For a person, who is very emotional and competitive, as a player/goalie, that is all part of the package. I will be competitive and emotional or suck completely and be calm. People cannot have their cake and eat it too. That is part of the package so deal with it. Wow, I feel much better. I can sleep tight tonight!